OK,so me and my guy broke up.its ok ...no big deal,i mean everybody breaks up!wats new?and the best part of my break up was that it wasnt a very long relation...jst 2 years...nothing compared to how people survive aftr breaking up a 15 years marriage!and i was always careful...always was prepared for the worst...then why does this hurt so much?it wasnt working out for a long time!he was taking me for granted!so now i am better off without him.NO expectations being unfulfilled!No worries for the phone not ringing!No insecurities about him!Yet i feel like down in the dumps!is it becoz i feel lonely?no reason for that.i have numerous great freinds!